I invented a new term called “polypsych”, which was inspired by the term “polymath“.
A polypsych is a person who possesses a high capability to viscerally understand & live through many different perspectives & mindsets.
Being a polymath is about knowledge & expertise. Being a polypsych is about feeling & identity.
Most people get largely fixed into one rigid identity & mindset. A well developed polypsych possesses many and is adaptable within them. This goes beyond just being a generally worldly or empathetic person.
Along with being a polymath, I would additionally be considered a polypsych, which I love being much more. It helps make life much more dynamic & interesting. 
Ultra elite hedonists are often polypsychs too. 
Become a collector & connoisseur of the most pleasurable feelings & experiences throughout your life. Bottle them and serve them up again later on.
Man, I just remembered what life was like before I primarily engaged in mechanistic thinking, where I engaged life through stories of meaning. There are pros & cons to both. Mechanism based thinking turns everything into an agnostic variable relative to the unique situation and is better for understanding absolute truth & engineering strategic solutions. Story based thinking filters everything through a preconceived story one has about that part of life.
I’m overwhelmingly a mechanistic thinker now, and have been so for over a decade, but I miss much of the built-in fun, connection, & happiness of my old storybook mindset. Story based thinking can go both ways though, where it can also make more negative meaning & sadness out of everyday life. It would be ideal to consciously switch between the two when optimal, however, that seems quite tough to do.
It’s hard for my mind to segment my present day life from my desired future. It’s hard to integrate present day mechanics & motivation with a compelling future vision. What a perpetual tease of focus this is.
Here is the overall dilemma of my new life’s callings…
- Hot chicks & youth culture make me want to pursue social hedonism full out for the insane pleasure.
- Wealthy capitalists & dealmakers make me want to pursue high finance full out for the massive resources.
- Cutting-edge scientists & futurists make me want to pursue life extension full out for survival into the distant future.
What is this boy to do with his life and in what sequence?
Is there an integrated solution that would actually work for me? If so, what is it?
I’m perpetually torn… 
Sex to me is one of the ultimate experiences of human connection, if not the absolute best. Why in hell would I ever want to limit that outlet for happiness to one human being for the rest of my life? Societal conditioning? Eating the same meal or wearing the same clothes each day for the rest of my life doesn’t make me more happy. Long-term monogamy runs counter to psychological human nature for heightened happiness. I guess that is why so very few married couples actually follow through on it until death. Monogamy is just not natural over time, hedonist or not. Why repress natural desires of mutual self-interest?
“We’re not talkin’ just fuck you money John Boy, we’re talkin’ fuck everybody money.” …from the 1993 movie Barbarians at the Gate. Made me laugh like hell. Good thing I don’t need “fuck you money” of the 1980s, because I’ve entered the modern Age of Fuck You.
Watching my favorite movie Wall Street while doing business development work on my triple monitor system hovering over me, all from my own comfy bed. How’s your workday going? Welcome to the Age of Fuck You!!
I’m about to take the gloves off and start going more gangster for pleasure. There’s just no other way right now, so fuck it.
I often meet people who are cool & impressive on the surface with their in-person presence. Then I take another look at what comes out of my mind to my blog and see just how not cool & impressive most of these people actually are. Most are just kindergarteners. Who the fuck can really keep up with my eccentric, deep, spontaneous, sexual, complex, rebel, psycho bubble of hedonism? I want to meet you.
When a friend recently told me that he & his wife have a really high sex drive at 5-6 times per week, I did some research and learned then that I am a total nympho, since that’s like my daily drive. I thought all people consistently enjoyed having sex all day? Guess not. It takes hedonistic creativity, but I’ve found that there’s no better hobby for fun & pleasure. Sex is the ultimate sport and I’m a gold medal athlete. 
Had a totally fun wedding party vacation weekend as a groomsman. Got a wee bit too crazy but I had a fucking blast. I live in outer space!!
This bed is on fire with passionate love. The neighbors complain about the noises above. But she only cums when she’s on top.
Do you want to be a highly customized person or a highly standardized person? Which way have your beliefs, identity, career, lifestyle, & relationships been leading you? Is your life encouraging you to dynamically create & express as your truly unique self or to forever follow & conform as cog within your present day community? Maybe some purposeful rebellion for your happiness is in order, eh?
Today, some human being on planet earth did a search on the internet for the phrase “vaginas cumming” and found my website. That’s cool dude, but I’m not going to give you what you’re looking for. I guess this note isn’t going to help my SEO for this. Oh shit!! If I keep the language up, then I’ll soon be drowning in pussy (searches).
Some people live by a mindset or a philosophy of continually throwing a bunch of stuff against the wall to see what, if anything, sticks. I’ve never been that way. I’ve always been the type that aims to figure out & conceptually understand the model of how things work, then create strategies that predictably leverage it. Testing stuff out is still an important component, but secondary in my overall approach to most things in life. Understanding the model of how something works is more key to me. By constructing models, one can more systematically improve their strategies & results, which is more predictable in my opinion.
Generally two things can make me truly continuously love a person. Either extremely deep feelings of personal care or exotic hedonistic bombs of personal fun/pleasure. Most people don’t have the personal capacity to perpetuate either one. I really wish more people did. I was built for them.
Many people jump into establishing “long-term” romantic relationships so fast. It’s really no surprise how many people exit them pretty quick. Even worse than bad upfront investments, many that hold on to them are doing so out of negative motivations like this note says. I guess this is love? LOL.
I’m great at finding special meaning & mindsets to live from, but find that it is really tough to consistently execute on them within the details of life over time. I’d really love to find an integrated solution for something that continually works and makes life feel special.
I realized that the fix for my personal problem with aloofness is my dumbass strategy. If I’m caring about other people’s personal aloofness towards their lives, then I’m not doing a good job being a fucking dumbass of a person myself. God, how obvious is this! I’m such a fucking dumbass.
What usually hurts the most in feelings of personal rejection is what is unsaid & unacknowledged by others. Those are usually the thoughts that eat at you over time. If something unsaid or unacknowledged is spiking your fear or a feeling of loss with another person, then it is usually better to openly say it and acknowledge it, even if they won’t, even if it makes you look weak at the time. Trust me, if you play it tough & defensive, then your happiness will suffer throughout the future, potentially seriously.
Often, even if you openly say what you fear they are likely thinking, they will deny it to protect their ego and not followup with their version of the truth. Then you can openly say that they obviously have a problem with you that they are trying to conceal. At this point, you can end your side of it with a much cleaner emotional slate than if you don’t openly express your feelings of emotional vulnerability. Openly state your inner fears, then point out how concealed the other person is being at that point. Don’t try to aim for winning any arguments. Just free up your own emotional vulnerabilities by openly expressing them.
There is no defense to this approach, so you will feel much better. I know this from a lot of direct experience. However, if they never own up to their personal issue, then they will be the one’s left feeling fearful of your potential unknown judgment of what their issue might be. That’s not on you at this point though as they were the one who kept it bottled up & concealed.
Be very careful what people you chose to respect in life. It often has real impact upon the basis of meaning for your life. Ensure that those you respect truly deserve it and why you respect them deeply aligns with your long-term pursuit of personal happiness.
I’ve learned this the hard way by once respecting people who play “honorable” roles in society and were freely given respect by several others. Yeah, total facade, house of mirrors.
Respect yourself first & foremost by consistently requiring strong evidence that other people deserve your respect. Otherwise, only pay people the respect of their basic human rights as well as whatever makes you happy to give away for your own momentary pleasure.
Most of the time when humans say the phrase “I love you.” they really mean this…
“I really like the pleasurable emotional affect you have on me compared to most others and I want to continue enjoying that from you throughout the future. And I might be willing to take on some personal costs to do that, but I’m unsure as to what extent and am flying by the seat of my pants right now. Please don’t reject me and please give me what I want.”
Checkout this really cool map of human sexuality. What distant lands have you explored or secretly would like to explore in your lifetime? Have you found the right adventurous travel buddy yet?
Here is part of an email I just wrote to a good friend of mine about the Age of Personal Exploration…
The Age of Personal Exploration will be a true societal game changer, where it is normal for people to more deeply explore themselves & their desires and openly live from them. The problem still now is that the majority of people still filter much of themselves to a mainstream default within their community. They fear rejection from sticking out with what they’ve found within themselves or they don’t even explore that much within themselves out of fear or conditioning. We are slowly on track to an age where open personal exploration becomes normal though. For now, the Age of Fuck You will do for those who are ambitious enough to pursue & leverage it, since economic consequences are a fundamental risk of living openly, in much of our present day society, with what one finds through personal exploration. Overall, the brands of people are very filtered & consolidated now. In the Age of Personal Exploration, we will see a much more diverse landscape of custom brands of people throughout the world, as you see happening in virtual worlds like Second Life.
Each day, brand new humans enter our world who know nothing of how things have been or how things are within the race that they are to be a part of. They know nothing of good, evil, power, money, law, society, family, friendship, status, love, hate, fear, government, technology, war, freedom, cosmology, biology, disease, education, language, pain, pleasure, happiness, or sadness. They only have their human nature. What will they make of it? What will this world make of them? Are you just one of these same beings in the middle of such a process? How would you guide yourself from birth with your present wisdom? Wouldn’t a life based on that same wisdom benefit you now? Isn’t your future still unwritten?
All of your desires are super niche in that your emotions naturally respond to ultra specific things whether you are aware of it or not. This means that most everything that makes you happy is ultimately derived from an array of fetishes of your subconscious.
Becoming aware of more desires on this level of “subconscious fetish” can allow you to pursue personal happiness with extreme potency. It already exists within you, so why not simply discover & leverage it for much greater pleasure & happiness?
True personal liberation within individual liberty is a beautiful thing. A free life is most fulfilled by a truly free mind.
Dirty mind. Dirty talk. Dirty dancing. Dirty sex. Yet the pleasure feels so clean.
Even in my twenties, I’m noticing that it is really naturally tough to hold on to the visceral feeling & mindset of one’s youth. No wonder most people lose their visual spark, emotional vibrancy, & carefree spontaneity. It’s a tough thing to hold on to, but I’m personally up to the challenge. Young for life!!
I’m a total sucker for physical beauty in females. My mind just goes goo goo ga ga. I’m attracted to MUCH more about girls, but looks are such a fun & pleasurable part of human nature.
Your grandparents didn’t talk about sex and rarely went beyond missionary style within their monogamous marriage, because sex itself was taboo and many sex positions were illegal.
Your parents sometimes talked about sex, and explored with a few more positions with a few more people, but felt butterflies of embarrassment or shame about it.
You & your friends consistently have fun talking about sex and are often willing to have casual sex and sometimes semi-kinky sex without it being a big deal.
Your kids & their friends will be the edgy version of you, who are more promiscuous and engage in even kinkier sex. BDSM style sexuality will feel more normal to them.
Your grandkids & their friends will be full-blown hedonistic fetishists who voluntarily advertise their sexuality. They will consistently engage in several of the taboos of today like they are candy. They will largely view their sexuality as a 24/7 open outlet for experiencing more pleasure & personal happiness.
Notice how each generation feels like like the one’s before them were quite repressed & boring and the one’s after them are too edgy or immoral. It’s all relative and continuously changing in the favor of hedonistic human nature.
I believe that the genuine truth is we are all free individuals who can do whatever we want as long as it doesn’t violate the bodies of another without their express consent. In my life, I personally subscribe to a philosophy of biological health, where if it doesn’t harm my body or that of my sexual partners’ bodies, then nothing is inherently wrong or bad about any consensual play. Beyond continuing the human race, human sexuality is all about consensually increasing personal happiness through individual liberty & personal desires, whether as love, sport, or a mixture of both.
Alternative sexuality is clearly integrated into human nature and becoming mainstream. It might take one more generation to come into full fruition, but I see so many signs that it is imminent. I’m somewhat bored with plain vanilla sexuality, so I’m choosing to live in the future now, where fetishes & dark side human nature are used in positive ways to increase pleasure & personal happiness.
My heart knows nothing of your societal norms. It only knows what makes me happy.
If you follow your personal happiness into more & more potent desires, then you’ll eventually find desires that are taboo to the traditional mainstreamers of your community. At this point, those who are willing to courageously pursue their happiness will indulge themselves and increase their personal happiness. Those who give in to their fear of rejection will repress themselves and their sense of happiness & freedom will be reduced in life going forward. Have the courage to pursue happiness according to your own personal morals & human nature. Not through the cheap judgment of other humans who never live as you.
Probably the two biggest overall failings of people’s happiness are…
Mistakes of Long-Term Pain: Where you make decisions and take actions that harm you physically (drugs, smoking, obesity, poor nutrition, physical abuse, etc) or put you in a mental cage of unhappiness (social obligation, identity conformance, poor relationships, financial obligation, unfulfilling job, etc).
Lacking Depth of Pleasure: Where you pursue your happiness in vague, general, social bandwagon type ways, instead of pursuing maximally potent, unique, niche, deep, personal desires that explosively light you up. Human’s naturally seek out pleasure, so what usually gets in the way here is your fear of rejection to pursue non-traditional desires or your laziness to do deeper personal exploration to discover such pleasures/desires.
I remember back several years ago when I largely dismissed internet marketing as amateur entrepreneurship, where big profits were not predictably made. Yeah, I was very wrong. However, there are still a lot of entrepreneurs viewing internet marketing in this same way, often enabled by fundamentally not understanding the platforms, mechanisms, & context.
Even though it is potentially vital to the businesses & careers of many entrepreneurs going forward, some still judge it as a waste of their time. This this mindset of would-be competitors just means more for profits for me! If I were back in that ignorant mindset, I’d either go personally acquire internet marketing expertise (as I have) or hire/partner with a truly professional marketer. Marketing is the heart of business and the internet is the biggest marketing revolution ever. The world will leave you behind.
People so often make inaccurate interpretations of openly honest statements & the rebel identity, where they believe it is often coming from a place of negativity, so then they choose to get negative and start fighting, all based on their upfront false ASSumptions. This is a common downside of being somebody like me, yet I won’t take blame for other people’s false judgment. I don’t need to.
It’s all fun & sexy here in my world. If people want to make false negativity out of that, then that is their sad prerogative. One advantage of this is that it often acts as a personal filter for truly emotionally developed humans. Would it bring about too much fear of rejection for people to simply ask if one is acting/talking out of negativity before judging & fighting them?
To shit & piss into a toilet is a waste of one’s waste. If I reach UHNWI status, then I’m going to have assistants carry around biowaste containers for me to shit & piss into instead. Then every one can be scientifically analyzed in a lab to continuously help further assess & optimize my biological health. Imagine a line graph of several properties of all my shits & pisses over time. That’d be cool! You might call me a Howard Hughes, but at some point we’ll all probably have this feature built directly into our standard toilets to help assess & maintain our biological health. I’m just ahead of the curve on this one.
There’s a lot of desires & experiences that will only likely become evergreen pleasures for us if we are able to continuously optimize several external variables relative to our internal desires & fetishes. Reality though is that it might not be probable for us to be in this position for many of our desired experiences for the foreseeable future. So it is super wise to prioritize one’s pursuit of evergreen pleasure by not only the level of pleasure, but the predictable feasibility of the pleasure’s prerequisites. An elite strategy for elite hedonists!
I so totally love roleplay relationships so much that I want to study professional acting throughout the future with partners to maximize the connection & experience by making the roles feel as real as possible.
The overwhelming majority of people view & treat their relationship with romantic partners as entitled property. They become so emotionally addicted to their relationship and so afraid of rejection & the notion of starting over. Why do we believe we can absolutely obligate another human being to us forever? I refuse to be like that, even when it hurts not to. I believe we are all free human beings with individually unique identities & paths of happiness. It is a complete disservice to our happiness to inject obligation & compromise into personal relationships. Just let the relationship naturally be for as long as it is of mutual self-interest. We are all ultimately individuals.
Why aren’t more guys into snowballing with chicks?? I think it is fucking fun & very intimately hot. They take it in from you, so why not share it.
Shit doesn’t have to be real to be pleasurable. Tons more pleasure available in my bubble world than the real world. Hell, what do you think simulated reality is all about?
There’s lots of pleasures that are shiny & fleeting…that will extinct much of their own pleasure after you get them. Accurately discerning between these consumer grade pleasures and the true evergreen pleasures of your personal desires is what genuine fulfillment is built upon. Having a capability to do this though introspection, as this note says, is an amazingly awesome capability! I’m working on identifying more evergreen pleasures tonight and am making some good progress.
Most often, people discover the naughty parts about another person through observation or gossip, and then feel entitled to negatively judge because they found out something that was supposedly being hidden. I’m willing to just bluntly tell people how straight up naughty I am, which often totally mindfucks people. Haha, it’s good to embrace the majority of human nature.
Ultra successful hedonism, with maximal happiness, made up of fun, pleasure, connection, self-expression, freedom, & health, is quite the amazing & beautiful achievement!!
I simply can’t have traditional personal relationships & social life, if I want to be super happy. My desires, identity, & mindset prevent me from being happy with that. Also, the raw truth is that most people with traditional personal relationships & social lives aren’t that happy…because of these things! Happiness is primarily built upon deep human connection via custom personal desires, which is seriously lacking for most people, despite creating the life they planned.
I use a much looooooonger measuring stick of personal happiness than most people, because that is our real potential & my committed standard. So if you compared your own personal happiness to my measuring stick & personal life vision, you’d probably start feeling the overall inadequacy of a traditional lifestyle. I live in a bubble world because the real world doesn’t produce human lives of extreme happiness. I will go to my cryogenic grave striving to make my psycho bubble into my everyday reality.
In business, I’ve largely transitioned from entrepreneurship (building new infrastructure) to marketing (using existing infrastructure). This has been such a great innovation for my business career. However, in my new personal life as a hedonist, I feel like I’m stuck back in entrepreneur land, having to build brand new social life infrastructure to get what I want. I’d rather just leverage existing infrastructure & existing value, like I do now as a professional marketer in business, and still predictably enjoy much of the hedonistic social lifestyle I want.
The trouble is that, while business is about producing a general universally desired result like financial profits, my desired personal relationships & social life are based on deeply custom niche personal desires & fetishes. While we will probably streamline this in modern society during the Age of Personal Exploration, currently we are still in the dark ages as far as this level of depth for human connection goes, where we all have to run around for much of our lives like “social” entrepreneurs finding, testing, building for the win/win personal relationships & social lives that we all desire. I just want to get to the really really really good stuff already! I’m sick of working & building for fun, pleasure, connection, & happiness.
I’m trying to figure out a successful marketing angle for myself personally. Pretty tough challenge for a super deep and fairly wide array of personal desires & fetishes like mine. I have gotten somewhat closer though since my personal transformation last year. A big part of this now is getting super micro refined in my desires & fetishes, so I can precision target them without having to try a bunch of stuff out for years.
So many people cling to broken relationships, destroying their potential for true happiness, just to avoid potential rejection, failure, loneliness, etc. This is the equivalent to holding on to a dead end job that you hate for the rest of your life. Why should a person live their one single life this way? Unapologetically venture out into the vast world of your personal desires with others who love them & you too. It’s your world, your life, your pursuit of happiness.
When it comes to expert understanding, I’d much rather bet on a person with true obsession, rigor, & intelligence, than a normal person with traditional higher education.
I just watched the documentary “Hugh Hefner: Playboy, Activist and Rebel“. It focused primarily on his history and the societal challenges he went through with Playboy. I’ll have to checkout his Playboy Philosophy writings. He personally did a lot more, beyond the overall impact of Playboy’s presence, to help shift the landscape of individual liberty & sexual freedom than I thought. This got me thinking…
His 20th century hedonism is cool, but it is still surface level compared to full out human nature based hedonism. It could be cool if I did something similar as a 21st century entrepreneurial activist for individual liberty & hedonism to help bring society into the Age of Personal Exploration. I don’t really give a shit about the fame. I’ll have the personal lifestyle anyway. It might primarily bring about negatives for me. However, I think it’d be really cool to influence society in a way that opens it up more and embraces biologically healthy human nature more fully. Hmmm…
Honestly, most social events suck in my opinion, because in a social environment with several people around, most all people go into a surface level mindset and do not engage & connect deeply as they might one-on-one. In fact, people often reject deep connection in these settings because of their heightened social nervousness with exposing personal depth around crowds. I’ve observed this to be true across virtually all types & ages of people I’ve seen & interacted with. I prefer limited boundaries of connection, so I hate this dynamic of people, because I pretty much only like the deep & juicy types of interactions. Small talk, networking, & pleasantries make me want to stick a handgun in my mouth.
However, there is pleasure in the general energy & vibe of a social environment with several people around, so by bringing the deep connection along with me (Viper Squad), I can get the best of both worlds. In this scenario, I can consistently have meaningfully fun & emotionally deep interactions within the backdrop of energized social environments. I’m a bit of an exhibitionist too, so it can be fun to mindfuck people by having them look at me through their own glass ceilings.
Here’s a couple conceptual distinctions I’ve recently made about hedonistic rebel identity stuff…
Hard Hedonist vs. Soft Hedonist
A hard hedonist is typically into fast-paced, intense, in your face, hedonistic bombs of pleasure (like race cars & sport fucking) and has more of a “Rawr” personality.
A soft hedonist is typically into slower-paced, calmer, beautiful, enchanting pleasure (like spirituality & tantra) and has more of a “Meow” personality.
Hard Rebel vs. Playful Rebel
A hard rebel is typically more of an aggressive, fuck you, kick your ass, lives for trouble type of person.
A playful rebel is typically more of a fun loving, socially playful & naughty, rule bending, forbidden fruit type of person.
Personally, as a hedonistic rebel, I’m more of a hard hedonist and am in-between hard rebel & playful rebel. Although it feels like I’m evolving to naturally enjoy enchantment & playfulness much more intensely. We’ll see. All for pleasure.
Things like fun, pleasure, connection, & happiness are all the meaning I need out of what I do with my life. Even if the most trivial shit produces these feelings, I can still be fulfilled. That’s all that really matters.
I like to collect & curate personal pleasures of mine. I’m building an extensive list as I experience, envision, & feel new sources of pleasure. One day, this will become a menu of fun & pleasure that I can literally order from at will each day of my life.
I aspire to create a life where everyday I have an absolute smorgasbord of flavors from my custom personal desires to indulge in. Overall, this might feel similar to having a massive assortment of tropical fruit to eat from…
This is the lifestyle I want to live with my Viper Squad entourage. I need you crazy sexy little fuckers to create this special bubble world with!
Are you able to look back and see that it was clear how you weren’t going to follow through or succeed those times? What’s really changed about you since? What really needs to fundamentally change about you before you will predictably & consistently follow through for the long-term of your life?
YEEEEEEESSSSSS!!!!! I’m back to my exercise biking, where I can lose up to 1 pound of fat per day (~3500 calories). I’ve already lost ~15 pounds with ~60 hours of biking inside just a few weeks. It was pretty easy with my special method. Going to see this body ripped this year!!
What’s my secret? I put a recumbent bike in front of a big screen with a computer & wireless keyboard hooked up. Then I can just work for hours a day while peddling, without having to focus on the biking part. It works like a charm. In fact, I’m biking right now as I type this and am consistently forgetting that I’m even on an exercise bike, since my mind is so engrossed in what I’m doing on the computer. And of course I’m playing good music too! It’s fun to rack up the “quarter pounders” of fat loss throughout the day.
You know all of the really cool shit you’ve seen in media throughout your life? Virtually all of that is actually happening out in the world somewhere. So why not for you in your lifetime? With a sharp understanding of psychological marketing (value & influence) and an entrepreneurial spirit, you can have the potential to live the rare lifestyles of your dreams. What would your super custom blend of life look & feel like? You’re going to spend the time doing something with your life. Why not use it to go for and potentially live out your dreams?
Being wealthy really helps you combine a collage of traditionally unrelated social desires with other people, which would otherwise be too disconnected, eccentric, or taboo to gain participation under average conditions. Money, in various ways, can help shift the context & motivations to make obscure personal desires a win/win with others.
God damn, I’m going to need a fat bankroll to consistently fulfill the crazy circus of desires in my mind. Tennis & fucking, anyone?? …Now that’s true sport fucking.
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