When you realize that your current approach will likely never lead to what you really want out of your life, then it is time to stop and change your life to something more effective & fulfilling. Grow a pair and step up to the life you deserve. Many other people of all types around the world, throughout the past, present, & future, have done & will continue doing so. So why not you? Make your own destiny or get tossed around by the ripple effects of other people’s lives.